What Kegel Exercises Are
Kegel exercises are a form of pelvic floor muscle training that involves repeatedly contracting and relaxing the muscles at the base of the pelvis. They are one of the most commonly discussed self-care practices for pelvic health, yet technique matters more than repetition.
The National Institute of Diabetes and Digestive and Kidney Diseases (NIDDK) describes the basic approach as contracting the muscles, holding briefly, and then fully releasing. The purpose is not to create constant tension, but to improve muscle awareness and function over time.
How the Pelvic Floor Fits In
The pelvic floor muscles form a sling-like structure that stretches from the pubic bone at the front to the tailbone at the back. These muscles support the bladder, bowel, and — in women — the uterus. When they function well, they contribute to bladder and bowel control and respond automatically during everyday actions such as coughing or lifting.
The pelvic floor is part of a broader system. It works alongside the lower abdominal muscles and the diaphragm to support the spine and manage pressure within the abdomen. Factors such as pregnancy and childbirth, surgery, chronic constipation, repeated heavy lifting, and ageing can affect pelvic floor muscle function.
This context matters because Kegel exercises are not a universal solution. NIDDK notes that in some cases, practising these exercises may not be a good option, and recommends checking with a healthcare professional before beginning.
Technique and Relaxation
NIDDK outlines a starting method: find and squeeze the pelvic floor muscles, hold the squeeze for around three seconds, then release and fully relax. A common initial goal is to work toward ten to fifteen repetitions per session.
Two points often get overlooked:
Full relaxation is essential.
The muscles need to return to a resting state between contractions. Guidance from NHS sources emphasises that after each squeeze, the muscles should fully relax and let go. Without this release, the muscle cannot recover and may become fatigued.
Other muscles should stay relaxed.
NIDDK advises against tightening the stomach, thighs, or buttocks while doing Kegels, as squeezing the wrong muscles can place additional pressure on the bladder.
Urinating is for finding the muscles, not for training. NIDDK describes stopping urine midstream as a way to identify the correct muscles, but explicitly states not to do Kegel exercises while urinating on a regular basis, as this may increase the risk of bladder infection.
Getting Individual Guidance
Because pelvic floor muscle function varies from person to person, there is no single exercise programme that suits everyone. NIDDK notes that Kegel exercises can be done in different ways — different hold times and different numbers of repetitions — and recommends asking a healthcare professional for a plan that meets individual needs.
A doctor, nurse, or pelvic floor physiotherapist can help confirm whether the correct muscles are being used, sometimes through examination, and may recommend tools such as biofeedback or electrical stimulation. The American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists (ACOG) has also noted that pelvic floor muscle exercises are used for stress urinary incontinence and can be taught or coached by healthcare providers.
Further Reading
- Pelvic Floor Basics & Kegel Exercises — an introductory guide to understanding the pelvic floor and practising gently.
- Women's Health: Know Your Body — understanding changes and preparing for appointments.
A Few Questions to Consider
This is not a quiz, and there are no right or wrong answers. These are simply prompts that may help you decide whether to seek individual guidance:
- Are you able to identify and relax your pelvic floor muscles without tensing your stomach or thighs?
- Do you notice any discomfort or pain during or after trying these exercises?
- Have you discussed pelvic floor symptoms with a healthcare professional?
- Are you currently pregnant, recovering from surgery, or managing a chronic condition that affects the pelvic area?
